boyfriends & girlfriends

Originally Posted by xoashleyxo124

does anyone but me think that by 5 grade most kids should have a boyfriend or girlfriend??

i do think that kids in 4th and 5th graders should be boyfriend and girlfriend because everyday when i walk into my classroom there always kids makingout or flirting and everything else.Then after school we go downtown and have a bite to eat with eachother i also hope then when little kids reach 4th and 5th grade they will do the same,.
i hope you listen to this........
if you have a qute say it thanx
buhbyez

Wow...I dont agree with you. I think kids should be careful about who they associate with. You dont want to end up pregnant do you? Or you dont want to end up as a father at 15, do you? I dont think you do. Sex can ruin your life. I am careful with my daughters. Well one I adopted and the sad thing is....she is a lesbian. So I secertly tell my real daughter to keep on the watch. Not that I dont love my other daughter. I just dont want them to get to close. And they sleep in the same room. So be careful about how you sleep with.

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Originally Posted by Unregistered

Well one I adopted and the sad thing is....she is a lesbian. So I secertly tell my real daughter to keep on the watch. Not that I dont love my other daughter. I just dont want them to get to close. And they sleep in the same room. So be careful about how you sleep with.

bwahahahaha, that's awesome. You're doing the right thing.

I would certainly not tell a 4th or 5th grader not to date. (not unless I knew them and had good reason) I would tell ANYONE considering dating to set standards. To write these standards down and never waver on what you have written. I am a 21 year old virgen, who is engaged and finishing her degree. I say WRITE down your standards as young people because if standards are not written down, it is easy when in compromising situations to negotiate with yourself. and COMPROMISE, when you compromise your own standards you always lose. To young people. Wait to have sex. What is the point of explorying eachother? Are you not degrading one another if you indeed plan to marry later on? Have fun, hang out, kiss even, get to know eachother, but do not make mistakes that you know you will regret. Plan for dating. If you do not want to date someone who cusses, never do. If you do not want a boyfriend/girlfriend who pressures you about sexual things, if they pressure you, break up. (if they can not be understanding, and not pressure you). You only have one life to live, live it right. Set goals, and work to attain them. (and it's perfectly okay to have fun in the process.)

do you groap on a fram

Originally Posted by Unregistered

absolutely not, they are way too young for that.

I completly agree. I am in the 5th grade and I think that at that age you are not always mature enough. I have alittle in my class. BYE!!!!

Originally Posted by Unregistered

i think that yr5 is a great time for kids to have a boyfriend/ girlfriend. i have 5 kids - 15yo boy twins, 14yo boy, 12yo girl + 11yo boy.
My eldest boys had their first girlfriends at 9, and by 10 they had pashed many girls. now, at 15, are very experienced. my next son had his first girlfriend around the same age and continues going very far with girls now. my daughter had her first boyfriend at around age 10 and has a very close boyfriend now. my youngest son has his first girlfriend at the moment, and pashed her for the first time on her birthday 2 weeks ago.
they are happy with my decisions in letting them do as mmuch as they think is sensible and i trust them.
i think you should let your child have a boyfriend/ girlfriend if he/she wants to.

WOW!!!! what the hell r u raising???? i see y u have so many u prolly started at the mere age of ten

Oh god,

Here it goes again. I cant believe that this thread is so everlasting! I've been posting on this thread for about a year and a quarter! Reason still stands that getting a girlfriend in year 6 or under high school is unacceptable. And this is coming from a 12 year old. As tempting as it is to "enjoy" girlfriends, i'm just (hopefully) not so stupid to actually have a GF, let alone "enjoy" them.

I was the guy who posted posts' number 270, 272, 273, 276, 278, 280, 282, 284 and 287.